Your post is an excellent read, I'm in that position in the path between the blamer and the people (myself too) he points at even when he's at fault partly in those situations. Not pleasant to be around so I usually just walk away to avoid any more further confrontations. Since I understand his anger (hurt) wont allow him to hear out anything or anyone has to say unless its to his own satisfaction. We've been separated for a long time...nice not to hear it all the time.